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Brit Milah: Complete Guide to Jewish Ritual Circumcision
Everything you need to know about Brit Milah, from spiritual significance to practical organization aspects. A guide for parents preparing this sacred event.
1What is a Brit Milah?
Brit Milah (Hebrew for "covenant of circumcision") is one of the oldest and most fundamental mitzvot in Judaism. It represents the covenant between G-d and the Jewish people, established with Abraham over 3,800 years ago.
8
days after birth
3800
years of tradition
613
mitzvot including this one
Spiritual Significance
The Brit Milah marks the newborn's entry into the covenant of Abraham. It is a moment of great joy for the family and community, celebrating the addition of a new member to the Jewish people.
- Eternal Covenant - Symbol of commitment to G-d
- Continuity - Transmission of tradition from generation to generation
- Jewish Identity - First act of belonging to the Jewish people
2Key Participants in the Ceremony
Several people play an important role during the Brit Milah. Each role is an honor for the person who receives it.
The Mohel
A specialist trained both religiously and medically to perform ritual circumcision. He must be a practicing Jew, expert in the laws of Brit Milah, and technically competent. In Israel, many mohalim are also physicians.
The Sandak
Literally "the one who holds," this is the most important honor. The Sandak holds the baby on his lap during the circumcision. This role is traditionally given to the grandfather or a respected family member. According to tradition, being a Sandak brings blessings.
The Kvatter (Kvatterin)
The couple who brings the baby from the mother to the ceremony location. The woman (Kvatterin) takes the baby from the mother, passes him to her husband (Kvatter), who then gives him to the Sandak. This honor is often given to a childless couple, as tradition says it brings luck for having children.
The Chair of Elijah (Kisei shel Eliyahu)
A special chair is prepared for the prophet Elijah, considered the protector of children. The baby is briefly placed there before the circumcision. This tradition recalls that Elijah is spiritually present at every Brit Milah.
3The Ceremony Procedure
The Brit Milah follows a precise order, with each step having its significance. The ceremony generally lasts between 15 and 30 minutes.
1
Welcoming the Baby
The assembly rises and says "Baruch Haba" (Blessed is he who comes). The Kvatter brings the baby.
2
Chair of Elijah
The baby is briefly placed on Elijah's chair, then given to the Sandak who sits down.
3
Blessing and Circumcision
The Mohel recites the blessing "al hamila" and performs the circumcision. The father recites "lehakniso bivrito shel Avraham Avinu."
4
Naming the Child
A special blessing is recited over a cup of wine, and the child's Hebrew name is announced for the first time.
5
Seudat Mitzvah
A festive meal is served to celebrate the child's entry into the covenant. It is a mitzvah to participate.
4Organizing a Brit Milah in Israel
In Israel, organizing a Brit Milah is facilitated by existing infrastructure and everyone's familiarity with this tradition. Here are your options.
Finding a Mohel in Israel
In Israel, you can contact the local Rabbinate or ask for recommendations from your community. Hospitals also have lists of certified mohalim. Book as soon as possible after the birth!
5Choosing the Hebrew Name
The child's Hebrew name is announced for the first time during the Brit Milah. It is a moment filled with emotion and significance.
Naming Traditions
A
Ashkenazi Tradition
The child is named in memory of a deceased relative, usually a grandparent or great-grandparent. The name can be identical or start with the same letter.
S
Sephardic Tradition
The child can be named after a living relative, usually the paternal grandfather then maternal. It is considered an honor for the person.
B
Biblical Names
Many choose names from the Torah or prophets: Avraham, Yitzhak, Yaakov, Moshe, David, Yosef, Binyamin...
P
Weekly Torah Portion
Some choose a name connected to the parashah read the week of the birth, creating a link with the Hebrew calendar.
The Name Secret
Traditionally, the name is kept secret until the Brit Milah. Parents may choose to reveal it only at the moment of the blessing, adding to the solemn nature of the announcement.
6What Does Halacha Say?
The Brit Milah is governed by precise halachic rules. Here are the main provisions to know.
The 8th Day
The Brit Milah must take place on the 8th day after birth, even if it falls on Shabbat or Yom Kippur. The count starts from the day of birth.
Medical Postponement
If the baby is ill or cannot be circumcised for medical reasons, the Brit is postponed until he is healthy. The child's health takes precedence over the date.
Timing
The Brit must take place during the day, ideally in the morning. It cannot be performed at night.
Father's Responsibility
It is a mitzvah incumbent upon the father. If he cannot perform it himself, he designates a Mohel as his emissary (shaliach).
Postponed Brit
A postponed Brit (after the 8th day) cannot take place on Shabbat or a holiday. It must be done as soon as possible on a weekday.
7Budget and Costs in Israel
Here is an estimate of costs for organizing a Brit Milah in Israel. Prices vary depending on vendors and the level of reception.
Good to Know
Many Kupot Cholim (health insurance funds) in Israel offer partial subsidies for Brit Milah. Check with your fund. Some mohalim are part of the health system and their services may be partially covered.
8Tips for a Successful Brit Milah
For this special day to be unforgettable for all the right reasons, here are our practical tips.
Book the Mohel Early
As soon as the baby is born, contact a Mohel. The best ones are in high demand and the timeline is short (only 8 days!)
Assign the Roles
Decide early who will be Sandak and Kvatter. These are important honors for the family.
Prepare the Essentials
Special pillow, Chair of Elijah, kosher wine, oil for the Brit. The Mohel will give you the complete list.
Delegate
Mom just gave birth! Delegate the organization to family: invitations, catering, logistics.
On the Day
- Feed the baby right before so he's calm
- Prepare a quiet room for mom if she doesn't wish to attend
- Have spare diapers and clothes ready
- Follow the Mohel's instructions for post-Brit care
Mazal Tov!
The Brit Milah is a moment of great joy. Surround yourself with loved ones and enjoy this important milestone in your son's life. May this be the beginning of a life filled with Torah, marriage, and good deeds!
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